Quotes
‘Calcutta has still not recovered from history: people mourn the past, and abhor it deeply.’
The past gives you an identity and the future holds the promise of salvation. ... Both are illusions.
I create each hour’s newness by forgetting yesterday completely. Having been happy is never enough for me. I don’t believe in dead things. What’s the difference between no longer being and never having been?
p. 111
The past was neither as good nor as bad as we suppose: it was just different. If we tell ourselves nostalgic stories, we shall never engage the problems that face us in the present—and the same is true if we fondly suppose that our own world is better in every way. The past really is another country: we cannot go back. However, there is something worse than idealizing the past—or presenting it to ourselves and our children as a chamber of horrors: forgetting it.
I had made vows and to spare, but the present cannot be ruled forever by the past.
p. 283
Do not look for revelations in the ancient ruins. You will find here only what you bring: bits of memory, wisps of the past as thin as clouds in the summer, fragments of stone that are carved with symbols that sometimes almost make sense.
p. 10
What happens in our future can change the meaning of what has happened in our past.
The past has lost, as it always loses; the future has won, as it always wins.
p. 155
The past is relevant only as data.
p. 242
The past was gone, after all, and the future was the only thing they had left.
p. 180
But would she do it differently if she could? She doubted it. Her experiences growing up ad formed her into the woman that she'd become, just as his experiences had formed him, and she didn't regret them. And yet...she knew that wasn't the question that mattered. ...she realized the choice before her was this: Where do I go from here? It is never too late to change things.
p. 168
She'd always believed that people come in two varieties: those who look out the windshield and those who stare in the rearview mirror. She'd always been the windshield type: Gotta focus on the future, not the past, because that's the only part that's still up for grabs.
p. 270






















