Stop worrying about what you cannot control. It’s a total waste of your energy, energy that could otherwise… — Nigel Cumberland
Stop worrying about what you cannot control. It’s a total waste of your energy, energy that could otherwise be used to help you focus on what you can influence. I spend large parts of my coaching sessions helping people to sift through their challenges and concerns – helping them to determine what they can change and what they have no control over.
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