Supply the strength he lacks just so far as is required for freedom, not for power, so that he may receive… — Jean Jacques Rousseau

Supply the strength he lacks just so far as is required for freedom, not for power, so that he may receive your services with a sort of shame, and look forward to the time when he may dispense with them and may achieve the honour of self-help.

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