A wise psychiatrist once said to me, "People want to get better, but they don't want to change." But I would… — Andrew Solomon
A wise psychiatrist once said to me, "People want to get better, but they don't want to change." But I would propose that it is only by allowing people born with horizontal identities not to change that one allows them to get better. Any of us can be a better version of himself, but none of us can be someone else.
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