The way my mother always explained it, the traditional man wants a woman to be subservient, but he never… — Trevor Noah
The way my mother always explained it, the traditional man wants a woman to be subservient, but he never falls in love with subservient women. He's attracted to independent women. "He's like an exotic bird collector," she said. "He only wants a woman who is free because his dream is to put her in a cage."
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