Quotes about being different

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Quotes

  1. If nature has made you a bat, you shouldn't try and be an ostrich. You consider yourself odd at times, you accuse yourself of taking a road different from most people. You have to unlearn that! Gaze into the fire, the clouds and as soon as the inner voices begin to speak - surrender to them. Don't ask first whether it is permitted or would please your teachers or your father or some God. You will ruin yourself if you do that. That way you will become earth bound, a vegetable.

    p. 180

  2. ... I was very upset about how Americans couldn’t imagine what it was like to be something else, to be something else and proud of it.

  3. "You think I'm insane?" said Finnerty. Apparently he wanted more of a reaction than Paul had given him.

    "You're still in touch. I guess that's the test."

    "Barely — barely."

    "A psychiatrist could help. There's a good man in Albany."

    Finnerty shook his head. "He'd pull me back into the center, and I want to stay as close to the edge as I can without going over. Out on the edge you see all kinds of things you can't see from the center." He nodded, "Big, undreamed-of things — the people on the edge see them first."

    p. 86

  4. You want to be yourself, idiosyncratic; the collective (school, rules, jobs, technology) wants you generic to the point of castration.

    p. 54

  5. The world will always punish the few people with special talents the rest of us don't recognize as real.

  6. "That man is … odd," I dared say to William.

    "He is, or has been, in many ways a great man. But for this very reason he is odd. It is only petty men who seem normal."

  7. In the course of evolution nature has gone to endless trouble to see that every individual is unlike every other individual.... Physically and mentally, each one of us is unique. Any culture which, in the interests of efficiency or in the name of some political or religious dogma, seeks to standardize the human individual, commits an outrage against man's biological nature.

    p. 21

  8. The feeling of being ten thousand years behind, or ahead, of the others, of belonging to the beginnings or to the end of humanity...

  9. Yet I admit that with such different teaching Emile will not be just like everybody else, and heaven preserve him from such a fate! But where he is unlike other people, he will neither cause annoyance nor will he be absurd; the difference will be perceptible but not unpleasant. Emile will be, if you like, an agreeable foreigner. At first his peculiarities will be excused with the phrase, "He will learn." After a time people will get used to his ways, and seeing that he does not change they will still make excuses for him and say, "He is made that way."

  10. Sometimes I had an overwhelming urge to speak, not about that, but only to hint that there were some curious things about me which no one knew of. I wanted to find out whether other people had undergone similar experiences. I never succeeded in discovering so much as a trace of them in others. As a result, I had the feeling that I was either outlawed or elect, accursed or blessed.

    p. 41

  11. The Paris slums are a gathering-place for eccentric people — people who have fallen into solitary, half-mad grooves of life and given up trying to be normal or decent. Poverty frees them from normal standards of behaviour, just as money frees people from work. Some of the lodgers in our hotel lived lives that were curious beyond words.

  12. Exceptional people are often called crazy by the ordinary world.