Simone de Beauvoir

Quotes

  1. It is impossible to do anything for anyone.

    p. 317

  2. The present enshrines the past—and in the past all history has been made by men.

  3. After wars peace, after peace, another war. Every day men are born and others die.

  4. I'm never afraid. But in my case it's nothing to be proud of.

    p. 23

  5. They were walking side by side, but each was alone.

    p. 53

  6. What has value in their eyes is never what is done for them; it's what they do for themselves.

    p. 315

  7. The curse which lies upon marriage is that too often the individuals are joined in their weakness rather than in their strength, each asking from the other instead of finding pleasure in giving. It is even more deceptive to dream of gaining through the child a plenitude, a warmth, a value, which one is unable to create for oneself; the child brings joy only to the woman who is capable of disinterestedly desiring the happiness of another, to one who without being wrapped up in self seeks to transcend her own existence.

    p. 522

  8. When an individual (or a group of individuals) is kept in a situation of inferiority, the fact is that he is inferior. But the significance of the verb to be must be rightly understood here; it is in bad faith to give it a static value when it really has the dynamic Hegelian sense of "to have become." Yes, women on the whole are today inferior to men; that is, their situation affords them fewer possibilities. The question is: should that state of affairs continue?

    Many men hope that it will continue; not all have given up the battle.

  9. Cooking is revelation and creation; and a woman can find special satisfaction in a successful cake or a flaky pastry, for not every one can do it: one must have the gift.

    p. 506

  10. One is not born a genius, one becomes a genius; and the feminine situation has up to the present rendered this becoming practically impossible.

    p. 133

  11. All agree in recognising the fact that females exist in the human species; today as always they make up about one half of humanity. And yet we are told that femininity is in danger; we are exhorted to be women, remain women, become women. It would appear, then, that every female human being is not necessarily a woman; to be so considered she must share in that mysterious and threatened reality known as femininity.

  12. Try to stay a man amongst men … There's no other hope for you.