Nafai knew the rule: when a man acts like a child, he's boyish, and everyone's delighted; when a boy acts the… — Orson Scott Card
Nafai knew the rule: when a man acts like a child, he's boyish, and everyone's delighted; when a boy acts the same way, he's childish, and everyone tells him to be a man.
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