".She had better have stayed at home," cried Elizabeth: "perhaps she meant well, but, under such a misfortune… — Jane Austen

".She had better have stayed at home," cried Elizabeth: "perhaps she meant well, but, under such a misfortune as this, one cannot see too little of one's neighbours. Assistance is impossible; condolence insufferable. Let them triumph over us at a distance and be satisfied."

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