Why think about that when all the golden land's ahead of you and all kinds of unforeseen events wait lurking… — Jack Kerouac

Boys and girls in America have such a sad time together; sophistication demands that they submit to sex immediately without proper preliminary talk. Not courting talk — real straight talk about souls, for life is holy and every moment is precious.

Life is life, and kind is kind.

Offer them what they secretly want and they of course immediately become panic-stricken.