We have evolved. But our ideas of gender have not evolved very much. — Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

You hate men, you hate bras, you hate African culture, you think women should always be in charge, you don’t wear makeup, you don’t shave, you’re always angry, you don’t have a sense of humor, you don’t use deodorant.

I often make the mistake of thinking that something that is obvious to me is just as obvious to everyone else.