A man must have something to grumble about; and if he can’t complain that his wife harries him to death with… — Anne Brontë

A man must have something to grumble about; and if he can’t complain that his wife harries him to death with her perversity and ill-humour, he must complain that she wears him out with her kindness and gentleness.

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