It was not fear that kept them from misusing what they had. It was self-respect. — Vonda N. McIntyre

The intensity of Melissa’s loyalty troubled Snake. She had never known anyone who was so completely oblivious to self-interest. Perhaps Melissa could not yet think of herself as someone with a right to her own dreams; perhaps so many of her dreams had been taken from her that she no longer dared to have them.

If you want to. That’s the important thing. For you to do what you want to do. Not what you think anyone else wants or expects you to do.

He seemed to be so used to having his own way that he could not deal with bad fortune.