# Lavinia

- Author: [Ursula K. Le Guin](https://www.leafyquotes.com/ursula-k-le-guin.md)
- Quotes: 6
- Book page: https://www.leafyquotes.com/ursula-k-le-guin/lavinia

## Quotes

> "Why must there be war?" "Oh Lavinia, what a woman's question that is! Because men are men."

p. 87 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/ursula-k-le-guin/lavinia/why-must-there.md)

> They say Mars absolves the warrior from the crimes of war, but those who were not the warriors, those for whom the war was said to be fought, even though they never wanted it to be fought, who absolves them?

p. 177 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/ursula-k-le-guin/lavinia/they-say-mars.md)

> Men call women faithless, changeable, and though they say it in jealousy of their own ever-threatened sexual honor, there is some truth in it. We can change our life, our being; no matter what our will is, we are changed. As the moon changes yet is one, so we are virgin, wife, mother, grandmother. For all their restlessness, men are who they are; once they put on the man's toga they will not change again; so they make a virtue of that rigidity and resist whatever might soften it and set them free.

p. 184 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/ursula-k-le-guin/lavinia/men-call-women.md)

> Is it the gods who set this fire in our hearts, or do we each make our fierce desire into a god?

p. 66 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/ursula-k-le-guin/lavinia/is-it-the.md)

> "There was a pretty prince of Troy named Paris. He and a Greek queen ran off together. Her husband called the other kings of Greece together, and they went to Troy, a great army in a thousand beaked ships, to get the woman back. Helen was her name."
>
> "What did they want her back for?"
>
> "Her husband's honor demanded it."
>
> "I should think his honor demanded that he divorce her and find himself a decent wife."
>
> "Lavinia, these people were Greeks."

p. 44 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/ursula-k-le-guin/lavinia/there-was-a-pretty.md)

> I can never get used to the fact, though I know it, that women are born cynics. Men have to learn cynicism. Infant girls could teach it to them.

p. 45 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/ursula-k-le-guin/lavinia/i-can-never.md)