# Quotes about self-pity

- Quotes: 8
- Authors: 7
- Broader topic: [Quotes about sadness](https://www.leafyquotes.com/topics/sadness.md)
- Topic page: https://www.leafyquotes.com/topics/self-pity
- JSON version (same data): https://www.leafyquotes.com/topics/self-pity.json

## Quotes

> “You needed a bath,“ Jean interrupted. “You were covered in self-pity.“

[Scott Lynch](https://www.leafyquotes.com/scott-lynch.md) · [Red Seas Under Red Skies](https://www.leafyquotes.com/scott-lynch/red-seas-under-red-skies.md) · p. 63 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/scott-lynch/red-seas-under-red-skies/you-needed-a-bath.md)

Topics: [humor](https://www.leafyquotes.com/topics/humor.md), [self-pity](https://www.leafyquotes.com/topics/self-pity.md)

> Self-pity, a destroyer of perspective.

[Edmund Cooper](https://www.leafyquotes.com/edmund-cooper.md) · [Kronk](https://www.leafyquotes.com/edmund-cooper/kronk.md) — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/edmund-cooper/kronk/self-pity-a-destroyer.md)

Topics: [self-pity](https://www.leafyquotes.com/topics/self-pity.md)

> In a weird way I must have loved my little collection of hurts and wounds. They provided me with some real nice sympathy, with the feeling I was exceptional.

[Sue Monk Kidd](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sue-monk-kidd.md) · [The Secret Life of Bees](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sue-monk-kidd/the-secret-life-of-bees.md) — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sue-monk-kidd/the-secret-life-of-bees/in-a-weird.md)

Topics: [self-pity](https://www.leafyquotes.com/topics/self-pity.md)

> He was in no position to judge these people. So what if they felt sorry for themselves? Better to wallow in self-pity over nothing than to have actually screwed up your life.

[Ted Chiang](https://www.leafyquotes.com/ted-chiang.md) · [Exhalation](https://www.leafyquotes.com/ted-chiang/exhalation.md) · p. 297 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/ted-chiang/exhalation/he-was-in-no-position.md)

Topics: [self-pity](https://www.leafyquotes.com/topics/self-pity.md)

> A very common role is the one of victim, and the form of attention it seeks is sympathy or pity or others' interest in my problems, “me and my story.” Seeing oneself as a victim is an element in many egoic patterns, such as complaining, being offended, outraged, and so on.

[Eckhart Tolle](https://www.leafyquotes.com/eckhart-tolle.md) · [A New Earth](https://www.leafyquotes.com/eckhart-tolle/a-new-earth.md) — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/eckhart-tolle/a-new-earth/a-very-common.md)

Topics: [ego](https://www.leafyquotes.com/topics/ego.md), [self-pity](https://www.leafyquotes.com/topics/self-pity.md)

> Not everybody who experiences great loss also experiences this awakening, this dis-identification from form. Some immediately create a strong mental image or thought form in which they see themselves as a victim, whether it be of circumstances, other people, an unjust fate, or God. This thought form and the emotions it creates, such as anger, resentment, self pity, and so on, they strongly identify with, and it immediately takes the place of all the other identifications that have collapsed through the loss.

[Eckhart Tolle](https://www.leafyquotes.com/eckhart-tolle.md) · [A New Earth](https://www.leafyquotes.com/eckhart-tolle/a-new-earth.md) — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/eckhart-tolle/a-new-earth/not-everybody-who.md)

Topics: [loss](https://www.leafyquotes.com/topics/loss.md), [self-pity](https://www.leafyquotes.com/topics/self-pity.md)

> “There,” Gardener said, pointing. “That little female one. Its name is Oh-pity-me. It cannot see the sun for the daylight nor the stars for the darkness, and it is worshipped by a surprising number of people.

[Sheri S. Tepper](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sheri-s-tepper.md) · [The Margarets](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sheri-s-tepper/the-margarets.md) · p. 281 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sheri-s-tepper/the-margarets/there-gardener-said.md)

Topics: [self-pity](https://www.leafyquotes.com/topics/self-pity.md)

> Did you build high walls around you only to sit within them and indulge in self-pity?

[Frank Herbert](https://www.leafyquotes.com/frank-herbert.md) · [God Emperor of Dune](https://www.leafyquotes.com/frank-herbert/god-emperor-of-dune.md) — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/frank-herbert/god-emperor-of-dune/did-you-build.md)

Topics: [self-pity](https://www.leafyquotes.com/topics/self-pity.md)