# The Bell Jar - Author: [Sylvia Plath](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath.md) - Quotes: 29 - Book page: https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar ## Quotes > There ought, I thought, to be a ritual for being born twice - patched, retreaded and approved for the road. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/there-ought-i-thought.md) > How did I know that someday — at college, in Europe, somewhere, anywhere — the bell jar, with its stifling distortions, wouldn’t descend again? [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/how-did-i-know.md) > I took a deep breath and listened to the old brag of my heart: I am, I am, I am. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/i-took-a-deep.md) > To the person in the bell jar, blank and stopped as a dead baby, the world itself is the bad dream. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/to-the-person.md) > I didn't feel like asking him if there were any other ways to have babies. For some reason the most important thing to me was actually seeing the baby come out of you yourself and making sure it was yours. I thought if you had to have all that pain anyway you might just as well stay awake. I had always imagined myself hitching up on to my elbows on the delivery table after it was all over — dead white, of course, with no makeup and form the awful ordeal, but smiling and radiant, with my hair down to my waist, and reaching out for my first little squirmy child and saying its name, whatever it was. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/i-didnt-feel.md) > The bell jar hung, suspended, a few feet above my head. I was open to the circulating air. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/the-bell-jar.md) > There must be quite a few things a hot bath won't cure, but I don't know many of them. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/there-must-be-quite.md) > If you expect nothing from somebody you are never disappointed. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/if-you-expect.md) > I never feel so much myself as when I'm in a hot bath. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/i-never-feel.md) > "It's a tango." Marco maneuvered me out among the dancers. "I love tangos." "I can't dance." "You don't have to dance. I'll do that dancing." Marco hooked an arm around my waist and jerked me up against his dazzling white suit. Then he said, "Pretend you are drowning." I shut my eyes, and the music broke over me like a rainstorm. Marco's leg slid forward against mine and my leg slid back and I seemed to be riveted against him, limb for limb, moving as he moved, without any will or knowledge of my own, and after a while I thought, "It doesn't take two to dance, it only takes one," and I let myself blow and bend like a tree in the wind. "What did I tell you?" Marco's breath scorched my ear. "You're a perfectly respectable dancer." [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/its-a-tango.md) > I saw myself sitting in the crotch of this fig tree, starving to death, just because I couldn't make up my mind which of the figs I would choose. I wanted each and every one of them, but choosing one meant losing all the rest, and, as I sat there, unable to decide, the figs began to wrinkle and go black, and, one by one, they plopped to the ground at my feet. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/i-saw-myself.md) > The one thing I was good at was winning scholarships and prizes, and that era was coming to an end. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/the-one-thing.md) > I saw my life branching out before me like the green fig tree in the story. From the tip of every branch, like a fat purple fig, a wonderful future beckoned and winked. One fig was a husband and happy home and children, and another fig was a famous poet and another fig was a brilliant professor, and another fig was Ee Gee, the amazing editor, and another fig was Constantin and Socrates and Attila and a pack of other lovers with queer names and offbeat professions, and another fig was an Olympic lady crew champion, and beyond and above these figs were many more figs I couldn't quite make out. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/i-saw-my-life.md) > Later Buddy told me the woman was on a drug that would make her forget she'd had any pain and that when she swore and groaned she really didn't know what she was doing because she was in a kind of twilight sleep. I thought it sounded just like the sort of drug a man would invent. Here was a woman in terrible pain, obviously feeling every bit of it or she wouldn't groan like that, and she would go straight home and start another baby, because the drug would make her forget how bad the pain had been, when all the time, in some secret part of her, that long, blind, doorless and windowless corridor of pain was waiting to open up and shut her in again. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/later-buddy-told.md) > There is something demoralizing about watching two people get more and more crazy about each other, especially when you are the only extra person in the room. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/there-is-something.md) > The silence depressed me. It wasn't the silence of silence. It was my own silence. I knew perfectly well the cars were making a noise, and the people in them and behind the lit windows of the buildings were making a noise, and the river was making a noise, but I couldn't hear a thing. The city hung in my window, flat as a poster, glittering and blinking, but it might just as well not have been there at all, for the good it did me. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/the-silence-depressed.md) > "I hate her," I said, and waited for the blow to fall. But Doctor Nolan only smiled at me as if something had pleased her very, very much and said, "I suppose you do." [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/i-hate-her.md) > When they asked some old Roman philosopher or other how he wanted to die, he said he would open his veins in a warm bath. I thought it would be easy, lying in the tub and seeing the redness flower from my wrists, flush after flush through the clear water, till I sank to sleep under a surface gaudy as poppies. But when it came right down to it, the skin of my wrist looked so white and defenseless that I couldn't do it. It was as if what I wanted to kill wasn't in that skin or the thin blue pulse that jumped under my thumb, but somewhere else, deeper, more secret, and a whole lot harder to get at. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/when-they-asked.md) > Then he just stood there in front of me and I kept on staring at him. The only thing I could think of was turkey neck and turkey gizzards and I felt very depressed. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/then-he-just.md) > Instead of the world being divided up into Catholics and Protestants or Republicans and Democrats or white men and black men or even men and women, I saw the world divided into people who had slept with somebody and people who hadn't, and this seemed the only really significant difference between one person and another. I thought a spectacular change would come over me the day I crossed the boundary line. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/instead-of-the.md) > Wherever I sat — on the deck of a ship or at a street café in Paris or Bangkok — I would be sitting under the same glass bell jar, stewing in my own sour air. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/wherever-i-sat.md) > What a man is is an arrow into the future and what a woman is is the place the arrow shoots off from. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/what-a-man.md) > It was a queer, sultry summer, the summer they electrocuted the Rosenbergs, and I didn't know what I was doing in New York. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/it-was-a-queer.md) > They understood things of the spirit in Japan. They disemboweled themselves when anything went wrong. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/they-understood-things.md) > "Does she know you love her?" "Of course." I paused. The obstacle seemed unreal to me. "If you love her," I said, "you'll love somebody else someday." [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/does-she-know.md) > I thought how strange it had never occurred to me before that I was only purely happy until I was nine years old. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/i-thought-how.md) > I began to see why woman-haters could make such fools of women. Woman-haters were like gods: invulnerable and chock-full of power. They descended, and then they disappeared. You could never catch one. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/i-began-to-see.md) > So I began to think maybe it was true that when you were married and had children it was like being brainwashed, and afterward you went about as numb as a slave in some private, totalitarian state. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/so-i-began.md) > If neurotic is wanting two mutually exclusive things at one and the same time, then I'm neurotic as hell. I'll be flying back and forth between one mutually exclusive thing and another for the rest of my days. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/sylvia-plath/the-bell-jar/if-neurotic-is-wanting.md)