Religion humanizes this universe, makes us feel important and loved. We are not animals governed by… — Robert W. Greene

Sadness of any sort is also seductive, particularly if it seems deep-rooted, even spiritual, rather than needy or pathetic—it makes people come to you.

Arrange an occasional “chance” encounter, as if you and your target were destined to become acquainted—nothing is more seductive than a sense of destiny. Lull the target into feeling secure, then strike.

People who are outwardly distant or shy are often better targets than extroverts. They are dying to be drawn out, and still waters run deep.