# Quote — Randy Pausch, The Last Lecture

> And he (Andy Van Dam) put his arm around my shoulders and we went for a little walk and he said, Randy, it's such a shame that people perceive you as so arrogant. Because it's going to limit what you're going to be able to accomplish in life. What a hell of a way to word "you're being a jerk." [laughter] Right? He doesn't say you're a jerk. He says people are perceiving you this way and he says the downside is it's going to limit what you're going to be able to accomplish.

- Author: [Randy Pausch](https://www.leafyquotes.com/randy-pausch.md)
- Book: [The Last Lecture](https://www.leafyquotes.com/randy-pausch/the-last-lecture.md)
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