Either you have a rival or you don't. If you have one, you must set out to please, so as to be preferred to… — Pierre Choderlos de Laclos

Either you have a rival or you don't. If you have one, you must set out to please, so as to be preferred to him. If you don't have one, you must still please so as to obviate the possibility of having one.

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