# Three Weeks With My Brother

- Author: [Nicholas Sparks](https://www.leafyquotes.com/nicholas-sparks.md)
- Quotes: 18
- Book page: https://www.leafyquotes.com/nicholas-sparks/three-weeks-with-my-brother

## Quotes

> "Relationships are the most important thing in life, and friends are part of that."

p. 132

> We'd been raised to survive, to meet challenges, and to chase our dreams. … And we don't only love each other, but like each other as well.

p. 355

> Standing next to Micah, I realized that there were times when we talked not because we needed to communicate anything important, but simply because we each drew comfort from the other's voice.

p. 138

> "Dreams are funny like that. You want something so desperately, you somehow get it, then just as suddenly it's over. Like running races--all that training for a couple of minutes on the track. The secret, I've learned, is to appreciate the process."

p. 206

> I've come to understand that arguing with her about it has never solved anything. So instead of denying it, I've learned to take her hands, look her in the eyes, and respond with those three magic words that every woman wants to hear: "You're right, sweetheart."

p. 1

> Life, he decided, was for living, not for having, and he wanted to experience every moment that he could. At the deepest level, he'd come to understand that life could end at any moment, and it was better to be happy than busy.

p. 339

> "...the secret of a long lasting marriage is... ...communication. When we talk about issues and really open up to each other, things are great between us. When we keep things to ourselves, grudges and resentments build up and we end up arguing." ..."What good is talking if neither of you are really committed?...marriage comes down to actions. I think people talk too much about the things that bother them, instead of actually doing the little things that keep a marriage strong. You have to know what your spouse needs from you, and then you do it. And you avoid doing the things that harm the relationship. If your spouse acts the same way, your marriage can make it through anything."

p. 113

> ...it was in her refusal to allow any of us to indulge in self-pity of any kind...through a maddening style of argument, in which the following three statements were repeated in various sequences: A. It's your life + social commentary. B. What you want and what you get are usually two entirely different things. C. No one ever said that life was fair.

p. 127

> My dad was a good man. A kind man... I...loved him for what he did. He'd foster independence, showed us the value of education, and taught us to be curious about the world. Even more important, he'd helped the three of us become close as siblings, which I consider to be the greatest gift of all. I could have asked for nothing more in a father. And really, who could?

p. 287

> "Work, spirituality, family, friendships, health--you can't ignore any of them or it'll get you in the end."

p. 268

> My wife, I might add, is a saint. Either that, or maybe she is insane.

p. 4

> Our stories are funny because we lived them, and we survived them. The worse the incident was when it was happening, the funnier the story had become to us over the years.

p. 303

> "Writing is easy. It's just the typing that's hard."

p. 3

> "Denial is an ugly thing, Nicky." "I'm not in denial.""See what I mean? That's denial."

p. 60

> When you chase a dream, you learn about yourself. You learn your capabilities and limitations, and the value of hard work and persistence.

p. 187

> "I tell Ryan that God gave him a brother like Miles so that Ryan could learn that anything is possible and that he can be good at anything. And I tell Miles that God gave him Ryan so that Miles could learn patience and persistence and how to overcome challeges."

p. 333

> "...you have to give them both credit for being good parents simply because of the way their kids turned out. We're happily married, successful, ethical, and we remained close as siblings. If your kids can say the same thing later in life, won't you think you did a good job as a parent?"

p. 247

> It isn't easy living with an author. I know this because my wife has informed me of this fact.

p. 1