# Dear John

- Author: [Nicholas Sparks](https://www.leafyquotes.com/nicholas-sparks.md)
- Quotes: 8
- Book page: https://www.leafyquotes.com/nicholas-sparks/dear-john

## Quotes

> "...I learned that it's possible to go on, no matter how impossible it seems, and that in time, the grief...lessens. It may not ever go away completely, but after a while it's not overwhelming."

p. 265

> ...She had the rare ability to be exactly what people needed when she was with them and yet still remain true to herself.

p. 93

> "...good teachers are priceless. They inspire you, they entertain you, and you end up learning a ton even when you don't know it."
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> "Because they're passionate about their subjects."

p. 69

> I fell in love with her when we were together, then fell deeper in love with her in the years we were apart. Our story has three parts: a beginning, a middle, and an end. And although this is the way all stories unfold, I still can't believe that ours didn't go on forever.

p. 4

> ...I finally understood what true love really meant. ...that love meant that you care for another person's happiness more than your own, no matter how painful the choices you face might be.

p. 275

> I knew my dad was a good man, a kind man, and though he'd led a wounded life, he'd done the best he could in raising me.

p. 198

> "...when you're struggling with something, look at all the people around you and realize that every single person you see is struggling with something, and to them, it's just as hard as what you're going through."

p. 71

> ...(in the army) you're forced to learn the most important lesson in life, and that's the fact that you have to live up to your responsibilities, and you better do it right. When given an order, you can't say no. It's no exaggeration to say that lives are on the line. One wrong decision, and your buddy might die. It's this fact that makes the army work. That's the big mistake a lot of people make when they wonder how soldiers can put their lives on the line day after day or how they can fight for something they may not believe in. Not everyone does. ...but when all is said and done, we do what we do for one another. For friendship. Not for country, not for patriotism, not because we're programmed killing machines, but because of the guy next to you. You fight for your friend, to keep him alive, and he fights for you, and everything about the army is built on this simple premise.

p. 18