# Set Boundaries, Find Peace

- Author: [Nedra Glover Tawwab](https://www.leafyquotes.com/nedra-glover-tawwab.md)
- Quotes: 18
- Book page: https://www.leafyquotes.com/nedra-glover-tawwab/set-boundaries-find-peace

## Quotes

> healthy people appreciate honesty and don’t abandon us if we say no.

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> Boundaries will set you free. (Introduction)

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> Tell people what you need.

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> The ability to say no to yourself is a gift. If you can resist your urges, change your habits, and say yes to only what you deem truly meaningful, you’ll be practicing healthy self-boundaries. It’s your responsibility to care for yourself without excuses.

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> It’s true that setting boundaries isn’t easy. Paralyzing fear about how someone might respond can easily hold us back. You might play out awkward interactions in your mind and prepare yourself for the worst possible outcome. But trust me: short-term discomfort for a long-term healthy relationship is worth it every time!

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> The hardest thing about implementing boundaries is accepting that some people won’t like, understand, or agree with yours. Once you grow beyond pleasing others, setting your standards becomes easier. Not being liked by everyone is a small consequence when you consider the overall reward of healthier relationships.

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> we victimize ourselves further when we let our fear prevent us from doing what we need to do.

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> Burnout is a response to unhealthy boundaries.

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> Fear is not rooted in fact. Fear is rooted in negative thoughts and the story lines in our heads.

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> How they treat you is about who they are, not who you are.

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> We simply can’t have a healthy relationship with another person without communicating what’s acceptable and unacceptable to us.

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> Discomfort is a part of the process.

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> It may be hard to just listen without offering advice as people share their problems, but this is often the best support we can give.

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> Avoidance is a passive-aggressive way of expressing that you are tired of showing up. Hoping the problem will go away feels like the safest option, but avoidance is a fear-based response. Avoiding a discussion of our expectations doesn’t prevent conflict. It prolongs the inevitable task of setting boundaries.

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> We don't naturally fall into perfect relationship; we create them

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> People don’t know what you want. It’s your job to make it clear. Clarity saves relationships.

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> It’s okay for a small child to set limits like not eating meat or feeling uncomfortable around certain people. Parents who respect those boundaries make space for their children to feel safe and loved, and they reinforce the positive habit of articulating needs. When parents ignore these preferences, children feel lonely, neglected, and like their needs don’t matter—and they will likely struggle with boundaries as adults.

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> Remember: there is no such thing as guilt-free boundary setting. If you want to minimize (not eliminate) guilt, change the way you think about the process. Stop thinking about boundaries as mean or wrong; start to believe that they’re a nonnegotiable part of healthy relationships, as well as a self-care and wellness practice.

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