Many women lose all the privileges of a free woman when they get married and what they gain is nothing… — Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah

I spent years avoiding sex with guys because I didn’t want anyone to gossip about me. I wish I had realized sooner that no matter what I did guys would claim to have fucked me every which way under the sun.

We achieve freedom when we let go of the weight of societal expectations, and when we find our people – those who love us, care for us, and hold us up when we start slipping.

I’ve learnt to ask myself every day, Are you happy today? And if the answer is no I make a change.