# Quote — Mary McCarthy, The Group

> You mustn't force sex to do the work of love or love to do the work of sex.

- Author: [Mary McCarthy](https://www.leafyquotes.com/mary-mccarthy.md)
- Book: [The Group](https://www.leafyquotes.com/mary-mccarthy/the-group.md)
- Source: [Wikiquote](https://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Mary_McCarthy#The_Group_(1963)) ([CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/))
- Quote page: https://www.leafyquotes.com/mary-mccarthy/the-group/you-mustnt-force

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> 'Let me out!' 'You want to get out of the car?' said Lakey. 'Yes,' said Harald. 'You bury her. You and the "group."' Lakey stopped the car. He got out. She drove on, following the cortège, watching him in the rear-view mirror as he crossed the road and stood, thumbing a ride, while cars full of returning mourners glided past him, back to New York.

[Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/mary-mccarthy/the-group/let-me-out.md)

> Thin women are more sensual; scientific fact — the nerve ends are closer to the surface.

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> As Socrates showed, love cannot be anything else but the love of the good. But to find the good is very rare. That is why love is rare, in spite of what people think. It happens to one in a thousand, and to that one it is a revelation. No wonder he cannot communicate with the other nine hundred and ninety-nine.

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