# Quote — Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

> It is one of the best traits of good people that they love where they pity. And this is truer of women than of men. So they get themselves drawn into situations that are harmful to them. I have seen this happen many, many times. I have always had trouble finding a way to caution against it. Since it is, in a word, Christlike.

- Author: [Marilynne Robinson](https://www.leafyquotes.com/marilynne-robinson.md)
- Book: [Gilead](https://www.leafyquotes.com/marilynne-robinson/gilead.md)
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- Quote page: https://www.leafyquotes.com/marilynne-robinson/gilead/it-is-one

## More from this book

> It is worth living long enough to outlast whatever sense of grievance you may acquire. Another reason why you must be careful of your health.

[Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/marilynne-robinson/gilead/it-is-worth.md)

> I can imagine Jesus befriending my grandfather, too, frying up some breakfast for him, talking things over with him, and in fact the old man did report several experiences of just that kind.

[Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/marilynne-robinson/gilead/i-can-imagine.md)

> I meant to leave you a reasonably candid testament to my better self, and it seems to me now that what you must see here is just an old man struggling with the difficulty of understanding what it is he's struggling with.

[Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/marilynne-robinson/gilead/i-meant-to-leave.md)