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      "text": "For years she had had this magic circle they could weave about themselves, luminous with Gadi's imagination, the place where she could never be lonely or bored. In that private world of play more intense, far more real than reality, she was whatever she longed for. (five: FIFTEEN YEARS BEFORE: THE DAY OF ALEF)",
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      "text": "\"One aspect of working with you, even of being with you, that I really appreciate is how hard you try to communicate. Human males don't often have that habit.\" (Shira to Yod, fourteen: BY THE LIGHT OF THE UNYELLOW MOON)",
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      "text": "We all of us go about, she meant to tell him but was too occupied, wanting to be wanted but unsure why anybody should bother. (twenty-two: THE PRESENT)",
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      "text": "\"I used to wonder what I did wrong. But now I think that unless you grossly mistreat a child or spoil her or let her be injured, basically there's a given element in all of us, something from genes or the moment. From birth on, a child follows her own path. She learns, but she also unfolds from within.\" (Malkah, twenty-eight: HOW CAN WE TELL THE DANCER FROM THE DANCE?)",
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