Well, that is one of the three foundations of learning: see much, study much, suffer much. — Lloyd Alexander

"Neither refuse to give help when it is needed," Medwyn continued, "nor refuse to accept it when it is offered."

"Why?" Dallben interrupted. "In some cases," he said, "we learn more by looking for the answer to a question and not finding it than we do from learning the answer itself."

Once you have courage to look upon evil, seeing it for what it is and naming it by its true name, it is powerless against you, and you can destroy it.