"The thing is to play your own game - not let the other feller force you to what he wants." — John Wyndham

To sleep in peace, and resume a nightmare when one wakes, is a highly undesirable reversal of the natural order.

"I see death as the worm's opportunity. It is defeat. You can dress it as you like, with drama, or glory, or pomposity, and perhaps deceive yourself for the critical moment - but, nevertheless, the same worm comes - it is defeat..."

It's all pretty simple if you don't give a damn who gets hurt in the rush.