# Quote — John Stuart Mill, Autobiography

> My education, which was wholly his work, had been conducted without any regard to the possibility of its ending in this result; and I saw no use in giving him the pain of thinking that his plans had failed, when the failure was probably irremediable, and, at all events, beyond the power of his remedies. Of other friends, I had at that time none to whom I had any hope of making my condition intelligible. It was however abundantly intelligible to myself; and the more I dwelt upon it, the more hopeless it appeared.

- Author: [John Stuart Mill](https://www.leafyquotes.com/john-stuart-mill.md)
- Book: [Autobiography](https://www.leafyquotes.com/john-stuart-mill/autobiography.md)
- Page: 135
- Source: [Wikiquote](https://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/John_Stuart_Mill#Ch._5:_A_Crisis_in_My_Mental_History._One_Stage_Onward.) ([CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/))
- Topics: [suffering](https://www.leafyquotes.com/topics/suffering.md)
- Quote page: https://www.leafyquotes.com/john-stuart-mill/autobiography/my-education-which

## More from this book

> The practical reformer has continually to demand that changes be made in things which are supported by powerful and widely-spread feelings, or to question the apparent necessity and indefeasibleness of established facts; and it is often an indispensable part of his argument to show, how these powerful feelings had their origin, and how those facts came to seem necessary and indefeasible. There is therefore a natural hostility between him and a philosophy which discourages the explanation of feelings and moral facts by circumstances and association, and prefers to treat them as ultimate elements of human nature; a philosophy which is addicted to holding up favorite doctrines as intuitive truths, and deems intuition to be the voice of Nature and of God, speaking with an authority higher than that of our reason. In particular, I have long felt that the prevailing tendency to regard all the marked distinctions of human character as innate, and in the main indelible, and to ignore the irresistible proofs that by far the greater part of those differences, whether between individuals, races, or sexes, are such as not only might but naturally would be produced by differences in circumstances, is one of the chief hindrances to the rational treatment of great social questions, and one of the greatest stumbling blocks to human improvement.

p. 273 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/john-stuart-mill/autobiography/the-practical-reformer.md)

Topics: [society](https://www.leafyquotes.com/topics/society.md), [character](https://www.leafyquotes.com/topics/character.md), [change](https://www.leafyquotes.com/topics/change.md)

> I well knew that to propose something which would be called extreme, was the true way not to impede but to facilitate a more moderate experiment.

p. 294 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/john-stuart-mill/autobiography/i-well-knew.md)

Topics: [politics](https://www.leafyquotes.com/topics/politics.md)

> It is the character of the British people, or at least of the higher and middle classes who pass muster for the British people, that to induce them to approve of any change, it is necessary that they should look upon it as a middle course: they think every proposal extreme and violent unless they hear of some other proposal going still farther, upon which their antipathy to extreme views may discharge itself. So it proved in the present instance; my proposal was condemned, but any scheme for Irish Land reform, short of mine, came to be thought moderate by comparison.

p. 294 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/john-stuart-mill/autobiography/it-is-the.md)

Topics: [politics](https://www.leafyquotes.com/topics/politics.md), [change](https://www.leafyquotes.com/topics/change.md)