# Quote — J. M. Coetzee, Disgrace

> Talking to Petrus is like punching a bag of sand.
>
> 'Are you giving him up?'
>
> 'Yes, I am giving him up.'

- Author: [J. M. Coetzee](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee.md)
- Book: [Disgrace](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace.md)
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- Quote page: https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/talking-to-petrus

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> "Why? Because a woman's beauty does not belong to her alone. It is part of the bounty she brings into the world. She has a duty to share it."

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> I’m dubious, Lucy. It sounds suspiciously like community service. It sounds like someone trying to make reparation for past misdeeds.’

[Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/im-dubious-lucy.md)