# Disgrace - Author: [J. M. Coetzee](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee.md) - Quotes: 22 - Book page: https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace ## Quotes > Because he takes pleasure in her, because his pleasure is unfailing, an affection has grown up in him for her. To some degree, he believes, this affection is reciprocated. Affection may not be love, but it is at least its cousin. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/because-he-takes.md) > Talking to Petrus is like punching a bag of sand. > > 'Are you giving him up?' > > 'Yes, I am giving him up.' [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/talking-to-petrus.md) > "Why? Because a woman's beauty does not belong to her alone. It is part of the bounty she brings into the world. She has a duty to share it." p. 16 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/why-because-a-womans.md) > I’m dubious, Lucy. It sounds suspiciously like community service. It sounds like someone trying to make reparation for past misdeeds.’ [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/im-dubious-lucy.md) > What was ignoble about the Kenilworth spectacle was that the poor dog had begun to hate its own nature. It no longer needed to be beaten. It was ready to punish itself. At that point it would have been better to shoot it. p. 90 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/what-was-ignoble.md) > ... the whole thing is disgraceful from beginning to end. Disgraceful and vulgar. p. 45 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/the-whole-thing.md) > Note that we are not asked to condemn this being with the mad heart, this being with whom there is some­ thing constitutionally wrong. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/note-that-we-are.md) > My case rests on the rights of desire,’ he says. ‘On the god who makes even the small birds quiver.’ [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/my-case-rests.md) > Scandal. A pity that must be his theme, but he is in no state to improvise. p. 31 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/scandal-a-pity.md) > Don’t expect sympathy from me, David, and don’t expect sympathy from anyone else either. No sympathy, no mercy, not in this day and age. Everyone’s hand will be against you, and why not? Really, how could you [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/dont-expect-sympathy.md) > Although he devoted hours of each day to his new discipline, he finds its first premise, as enunciated in the Communications 101 handbook, preposterous: 'Human society has created language in order that we may communicate our thoughts, feelings, and intentions to each other.' His own opinion, which he does not air, is that the origins of speech lie in song, and the origins of song in the need to fill out with sound the overlarge and rather empty human soul. p. 3 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/although-he-devoted.md) > The company of women made of him a lover of women and, to a certain extent, a womanizer." p. 7 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/the-company-of-women.md) > That is how it begins. p. 38 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/that-is-how.md) > Too many people, too few things. What there is must go into circulation, so that everyone can have a chance to be happy for a day. That is the theory; hold to the theory and to the comforts of theory. Not human evil, just a vast circulatory system, to whose workings pity and terror are irrelevant. That is how one must see life in this country: in its schematic aspect. Otherwise one could go mad. Cars, shoes; women too. There must be some niche in the system for women and what happens to them. p. 98 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/too-many-people.md) > It reminds me too much of Mao’s China. Recantation, self-criticism, public apology. p. 66 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/it-reminds-me-too.md) > "Not rape, not quite that, but undesired nevertheless, undesired to the core. As though she had decided to go slack, die within herself for the duration, like a rabbit when the jaws of the fox close on its neck. So that everything done to her might be done, as it were, far away." p. 25 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/not-rape-not.md) > Confessions, apologies: why this thirst for abasement? A hush falls. They circle around him like hunters who have cornered a strange beast and do not know how to finish it off. p. 56 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/confessions-apologies-why.md) > Isaacs has a cheap Bic pen in his hand. He runs his fingers down the shaft, inverts it, runs his fingers down the shaft, over and over, in a motion that is mechanical rather than impatient. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/isaacs-has-a-cheap.md) > Spoken without irony, the words stay with him and will not go away. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/spoken-without-irony.md) > You behave as if everything I do is part of the story of your life. You are the main character, I am a minor character who doesn’t make an appearance until halfway through. p. 198 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/you-behave-as-if-everything.md) > "Is he happy? By most measurements, yes, he believes he is. However, he has not forgotten the last chorus of Oedipus: Call no man happy until he is dead." p. 2 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/is-he-happy.md) > He knows too much about himself to subject her to a morning after, when he will be cold, surly, impatient to be alone. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/j-m-coetzee/disgrace/he-knows-too.md)