# Quote — Haruki Murakami, First Person Singular

> I know a few beautiful women, the kind that anyone would find lovely and charming. But to me those beautiful women, the majority of them at least, never seem able to truly, unconditionally, derive pleasure in being gorgeous. Kind of strange, I think. Women who are born beautiful are always the center of men’s attention. Other women are jealous of them and they get coddled no end. People give them expensive presents, and they have their pick of men. So why don’t they seem happier? Why do they sometimes even seem depressed?
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> What I’ve observed is that most of the beautiful women I know are dissatisfied, and irritated by tiny, inconsequential flaws—the kind inevitably found somewhere in any person’s physical makeup. They obsess over these little details. Their toes are too big, or their nails are weirdly off center, or their nipples aren’t the same size. One gorgeous woman I know is convinced that her earlobes are too long, and always wears her hair long to hide them.

- Author: [Haruki Murakami](https://www.leafyquotes.com/haruki-murakami.md)
- Book: [First Person Singular](https://www.leafyquotes.com/haruki-murakami/first-person-singular.md)
- Page: 167
- Source: [Wikiquote](https://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Haruki_Murakami#First_Person_Singular_(2021)) ([CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/))
- Quote page: https://www.leafyquotes.com/haruki-murakami/first-person-singular/i-know-a-few

## More from this book

> No matter how vivid memories may be, they can’t win out against the power of time.

p. 154 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/haruki-murakami/first-person-singular/no-matter-how.md)

> Whether you cut it off
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> or someone else cuts it off
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> if you put your neck on the stone pillow
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> believe it—you will turn to dust.

p. 49 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/haruki-murakami/first-person-singular/whether-you-cut.md)

> Once again, I was confused. It felt like bits of reality and unreality were randomly changing places.

p. 151 — [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/haruki-murakami/first-person-singular/once-again-i-was.md)