# Quote — Erving Goffman, The Presentation of Self in Everyday Life

> Knowing that his audiences are capable of forming bad impressions of him, the individual may come to feel ashamed of a well-intentioned honest act merely because the context of its performance provides false impressions that are bad. Feeling this unwarranted shame, he may feel that his feelings can be seen; feeling that he is thus seen, he may feel that his appearance confirms these false conclusions concerning him. He may then add to the precariousness of his position by engaging in just those defensive maneuvers that he would employ were he really guilty. In this way it is possible for all of us to become fleetingly for ourselves the worst person we can imagine that others might imagine us to be.

- Author: [Erving Goffman](https://www.leafyquotes.com/erving-goffman.md)
- Book: [The Presentation of Self in Everyday Life](https://www.leafyquotes.com/erving-goffman/the-presentation-of-self-in-everyday-life.md)
- Page: 236
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