In many kinds of social interaction, unofficial communication provides a way in which one team can extend a… — Erving Goffman

In many kinds of social interaction, unofficial communication provides a way in which one team can extend a definite but non-compromising invitation to the other, requesting that and formality be increased or decreased, or that both teams shift the interaction to one involving the performance of a new set of roles.

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