When you think or speak about yourself, when you say, “I,” what you usually refer to is “me and my story.”… — Eckhart Tolle
When you think or speak about yourself, when you say, “I,” what you usually refer to is “me and my story.” This is the “I” of your likes and dislikes, fears and desires, the “I” that is never satisfied for long. It is a mind-made sense of who you are, conditioned by the past and seeking to find its fulfillment in the future.
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