# The Tenant of Wildfell Hall - Author: [Anne Brontë](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte.md) - Quotes: 105 - Book page: https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall ## Quotes > If you loved as I do, she earnestly replied, you would not have so nearly lost me — these scruples of false delicacy and pride would never thus have troubled you — you would have seen that the greatest worldly distinctions and discrepancies of rank, birth, and fortune are as dust in the balance compared with the unity of accordant thoughts and feelings, and truly loving, sympathising hearts and souls. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/if-you-loved.md) > God is Infinite Wisdom, and Power, and Goodness — and Love; but if this idea is too vast for your human faculties — if your mind loses itself in its overwhelming infinitude, fix it on Him who condescended to take our nature upon Him, who was raised to heaven even in His glorified human body, in whom the fullness of the Godhead shines. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/god-is-infinite.md) > Increase of love brings increase of happiness, when it is mutual, and pure as that will be. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/increase-of-love.md) > It is deeds not words which must purchase my affection and esteem. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/it-is-deeds.md) > He cannot endure Rachel, because he knows she has a proper appreciation of him. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/he-cannot-endure.md) > Never mind our kind friends: if they can part our bodies, it is enough; in God's name, let them not sunder our souls! [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/never-mind-our.md) > There's nothing like active employment to console the afflicted. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/theres-nothing-like.md) > It is a troublesome thing this susceptibility to affronts where none are intended. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/it-is-a-troublesome.md) > To regret the exchange of earthly pleasures for the joys of heaven, is as if the grovelling caterpillar should lament that it must one day quit the nibbled leaf to soar aloft and flutter through the air, roving at will from flower to flower, sipping sweet honey from their cups, or basking in their sunny petals. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/to-regret-the.md) > There is perfect love in heaven! [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/there-is-perfect.md) > Don't you know that every time we meet the thoughts of the final parting will become more painful? Don't you feel that every interview makes us dearer to each other than the last? [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/dont-you-know.md) > I'd rather be like myself, bad as I am. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/id-rather-be-like.md) > It is never too late to reform, as long as you have the sense to desire it, and the strength to execute your purpose. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/it-is-never.md) > You might as well sell yourself to slavery at once, as marry man you dislike. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/you-might-as-well.md) > What the world stigmatizes as romantic, is often more nearly allied to the truth than is commonly supposed; for, if the generous ideas of youth are too often over-clouded by the sordid views of after-life, that scarcely proves them to be false. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/what-the-world.md) > A burst of passion is a fine rousing thing upon occasion, Helen, and a flood of tears is marvellously affecting, but, when indulged too often, they are both deuced plaguy things for spoiling one's beauty and tiring out one's friends. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/a-burst-of-passion.md) > I know not whether, at the time, it was not for him rather than myself that I blushed; for, since he and I are one, I so identify myself with him, that I feel his degradation, his failings, and transgressions as my own; I blush for him, I fear for him; I repent for him, weep, pray, and feel for him as for myself; but I cannot act for him; and hence, I must be and I am, debased, contaminated by the union, both in my own eyes, and in the actual truth. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/i-know-not.md) > The demon of drink was as black as the demon of play, and nearly as hard to get rid of — especially as his kind friends did all they could to second the promptings of his own insatiable cravings. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/the-demon-of-drink.md) > Whatever my husband's faults may be, it can only aggravate the evil for me to hear them from a stranger's lips. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/whatever-my-husbands.md) > How odd it is that we so often weep for each other’s distresses, when we shed not a tear for our own! [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/how-odd-it-is-that.md) > He knows he is my sun, but when he chooses to withhold his light, he would have my sky to be all darkness; he cannot bear that I should have a moon to mitigate the deprivation. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/he-knows-he.md) > A hardness such as this is taught by rough experience and despair alone. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/a-hardness-such.md) > You will form a very inadequate estimate of a man's character, if you judge by what a fond sister says of him. The worst of them generally know how to hide their misdeeds from their sisters' eyes, and their mother's, too. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/you-will-form.md) > It is a woman's nature to be constant — to love one and one only, blindly, tenderly, and for ever. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/it-is-a-womans.md) > The more you loved your God the more deep and pure and true would be your love to me. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/the-more-you.md) > At your time of life, it's love that rules the roast: at mine, it's solid, serviceable gold. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/at-your-time.md) > Chess-players are so unsociable, they are no company for any but themselves. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/chess-players-are-so-unsociable.md) > God have mercy on his miserable soul! and make him see and feel his guilt — I ask no other vengeance! If he could but fully know and truly feel my wrongs I should be well avenged, and I could freely pardon all. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/god-have-mercy.md) > Intimate acquaintance must precede real friendship. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/intimate-acquaintance-must.md) > If you had no higher motive than the approval of your fellow mortal, it would do you little good. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/if-you-had.md) > Adoration isn’t love. I adore Annabella, but I don’t love her; and I love thee, Milicent, but I don’t adore thee. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/adoration-isnt-love.md) > Since I love him so much, I can easily forgive him for loving himself. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/since-i-love.md) > Revenge! No — what good would that do? — it would make him no better, and me no happier. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/revenge-no-what.md) > What can't be cured must be endured. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/what-cant-be-cured.md) > Friends as we are, we would willingly keep your failings to ourselves — even from ourselves if we could, unless by knowing them we could deliver you from them. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/friends-as-we-are.md) > You may think it all very fine, Mr. Huntingdon, to amuse yourself with rousing my jealousy; but take care you don't rouse my hate instead. And when you have once extinguished my love, you will find it no easy matter to kindle it again. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/you-may-think.md) > I ever give a thought to another, you may well spare it, for those fancies are here and gone like a flash of lightning, while my love for you burns on steadily, and for ever, like the sun. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/i-ever-give.md) > Forgetfulness is not to be purchased with a wish; and I cannot bestow my esteem on all who desire it, unless they deserve it too. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/forgetfulness-is-not.md) > Of him to whom less is given, less will be required, but our utmost exertions are required of us all. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/of-him-to-whom.md) > I sometimes think she has no feeling at all; and then I go on till she cries — and that satisfies me. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/i-sometimes-think.md) > "I shall expect my husband to have no pleasures but what he shares with me; and if his greatest pleasure of all is not the enjoyment of my company — why — it will be the worse for him — that's all." > > "If such are your expectations of matrimony, Esther, you must, indeed, be careful whom you marry — or rather, you must avoid it altogether." [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/i-shall-expect.md) > I think your piety one of your greatest charms; but then, like all other good things, it may be carried too far. To my thinking, a woman's religion ought not to lessen her devotion to her earthly lord. She should have enough to purify and etherealise her soul, but not enough to refine away her heart, and raise her above all human sympathies. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/i-think-your.md) > And you thought to rob me of my son too, and bring him up to be a dirty Yankee tradesman, or a low, beggarly painter?" > > "Yes, to obviate his becoming such a gentleman as his father. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/and-you-thought.md) > I will not allow myself to be worse than my fellows. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/i-will-not.md) > It is quite possible to be a good Christian without ceasing to be a happy, merry-hearted man. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/it-is-quite.md) > If your wife gives you her heart, you must take it, thankfully, and use it well, and not pull it in pieces, and laugh in her face, because she cannot snatch it away. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/if-your-wife.md) > I see that a man cannot give himself up to drinking without being miserable one half his days and mad the other; besides, I like to enjoy my life at all sides and ends, which cannot be done by one that suffers himself to be the slave of a single propensity. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/i-see-that.md) > Keep both heart and hand in your own possession, till you see good reason to part with them; and if such an occasion should never present itself, comfort your mind with this reflection, that though in single life your joys may not be very many, your sorrows, at least, will not be more than you can bear. Marriage may change your circumstances for the better, but, in my private opinion, it is far more likely to produce a contrary result. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/keep-both-heart.md) > A man must have something to grumble about; and if he can’t complain that his wife harries him to death with her perversity and ill-humour, he must complain that she wears him out with her kindness and gentleness. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/a-man-must.md) > You're at that game of threatening me with the loss of your affection again, are you? I think it couldn't have been very genuine stuff to begin with, if it's so easily demolished. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/youre-at-that.md) > Those, whose time is fully occupied, seldom complain of solitude. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/those-whose-time.md) > God will judge us by our own thoughts and deeds, not by what others say about us. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/god-will-judge.md) > Though I hate him from my heart, and should rejoice at any calamity that could befall him, I'll leave him to God; and though I abhor my own life, I'll leave that, too, to Him that gave it. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/though-i-hate.md) > I am truly miserable — more so than I like to acknowledge to myself. Pride refuses to aid me. It has brought me into the scrape, and will not help me out of it. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/i-am-truly.md) > His idea of a wife is a thing to love one devotedly, and to stay at home — to wait upon her husband, and amuse him and minister to his comfort in every possible way, while he chooses to stay with her; and, when he is absent, to attend to his interests, domestic or otherwise, and patiently wait his return; no matter how he may be occupied in the meantime. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/his-idea-of-a-wife.md) > The greater the happiness that nature sets before me, the more I lament that he is not here to taste it: the greater the bliss we might enjoy together, the more I feel our present wretchedness apart. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/the-greater-the.md) > Instead of combating my slight prejudice against you as uncharitable, I mean to cherish it, until I am convinced that I have no reason to distrust this kind, insinuating friendship you are so anxious to push upon me. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/instead-of-combating.md) > Where hope rises fear must lurk behind. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/where-hope-rises.md) > There is always a 'but' in this imperfect world. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/there-is-always.md) > Life and hope must cease together. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/life-and-hope.md) > No generous mind delights to oppress the weak, but rather to cherish and protect. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/no-generous-mind.md) > To wheedle and coax is safer than to command. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/to-wheedle-and.md) > I can't love it — what is there to love? It can't love me — or you either; it can't understand a single word you say to it, or feel one spark of gratitude for all your kindness. Wait till it can show some little affection for me, and then I'll see about loving it. At present it is nothing more than a little selfish, senseless sensualist, and if you see anything adorable in it, it's all very well — I only wonder how you can. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/i-cant-love.md) > All our talents increase in the using, and every faculty, both good and bad, strengthens by exercise: therefore, if you choose to use the bad, or those which tend to evil, till they become your masters, and neglect the good till they dwindle away, you have only yourself to blame. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/all-our-talents.md) > I do believe a young lady can't be too careful who she marries. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/i-do-believe.md) > You may have as many words as you please, – only I can’t stay to hear them. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/you-may-have.md) > Beauty is that quality which, next to money, is generally the most attractive to the worst kinds of men; and, therefore, it is likely to entail a great deal of trouble on the possessor. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/beauty-is-that.md) > I am satisfied that if a book is a good one, it is so whatever the sex of the author may be. All novels are, or should be, written for both men and women to read, and I am at loss to conceive how a man should permit himself to write anything that would be really disgraceful to a woman, or why a woman should be censured for writing anything that would be proper and becoming for a man. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/i-am-satisfied.md) > Such humble talents as God had given me I will endeavour to put to their greatest use; if I am able to amuse I will try to benefit too; and when I feel it my duty to speak an unpalatable truth, with the help of God, I will speak it, though it be to the prejudice of my name and to the detriment of my readers immediate pleasure as well as my own. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/such-humble-talents.md) > "I almost wish I were not a painter," observed my companion. > > "Why so? one would think at such a time you would most exult in your privilege of being able to imitate the various brilliant and delightful touches of nature." > > "No; for instead of delivering myself up to the full enjoyment of them as others do, I am always troubling my head about how I could produce the same effect upon canvas; and as that can never be done, it is more vanity and vexation of spirit." [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/i-almost-wish.md) > "However little you may esteem them as individuals, it is not pleasant to be looked upon as a liar and a hypocrite, to be thought to practice what you abhor, and to encourage the vices you would discountenance, to find your good intentions frustrated, and your hands crippled by your supposed unworthiness, and to bring disgrace on the principles you profess." [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/however-little-you.md) > What are their thoughts to you or me, so long as we are satisfied with ourselves — and each other. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/what-are-their.md) > I would not send a poor girl into the world, ignorant of the snares that beset her path; nor would I watch and guard her, till, deprived of self-respect and self-reliance, she lost the power or the will to watch and guard herself. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/i-would-not.md) > I have heard that, with some persons, temperance – that is, moderation – is almost impossible; and if abstinence be an evil (which some have doubted), no one will deny that excess is a greater. Some parents have entirely prohibited their children from tasting intoxicating liquors; but a parent’s authority cannot last for ever; children are naturally prone to hanker after forbidden things; and a child, in such a case, would be likely to have a strong curiosity to taste, and try the effect of what has been so lauded and enjoyed by others, so strictly forbidden to himself – which curiosity would generally be gratified on the first convenient opportunity; and the restraint once broken, serious consequences might ensue. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/i-have-heard.md) > It is better to arm and strengthen your hero, than to disarm and enfeeble your foe. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/it-is-better.md) > He despises me, because he knows I love him. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/he-despises-me-because.md) > His heart was like a sensitive plant, that opens for a moment in the sunshine, but curls up and shrinks into itself at the slightest touch of the finger, or the lightest breath of wind. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/his-heart-was.md) > When a lady condescends to apologize, there is no keeping one’s anger. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/when-a-lady-condescends.md) > I imagine, there must be only a very, very few men in the world that I should like to marry; and of those few, it is ten to one I may never be acquainted with one; or if I should, it is twenty to one he may not happen to be single, or to take a fancy to me. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/i-imagine-there.md) > It is natural for our unamiable sex to dislike the creatures, for you ladies lavish so many caresses upon them. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/it-is-natural.md) > If you would really study my pleasure, mother, you must consider your own comfort and convenience a little more than you do. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/if-you-would-really.md) > She, however, attentively watched my looks, and her artist's pride was gratified, no doubt, to read my heartfelt admiration in my eyes. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/she-however-attentively.md) > Dear Halford, > > When we were together last, you gave me a very particular and interesting account of the most remarkable occurrences of your early life... [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/dear-halford-when.md) > The brightest attractions to the lover too often prove the husband's greatest torments [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/the-brightest-attractions.md) > Smiles and tears are so alike with me, they are neither of them confined to any particular feelings: I often cry when I am happy, and smile when I am sad. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/smiles-and-tears.md) > In love affairs, there is no mediator like a merry, simple-hearted child — ever ready to cement divided hearts, to span the unfriendly gulf of custom, to melt the ice of cold reserve, and overthrow the separating walls of dread formality and pride. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/in-love-affairs.md) > But as the priceless treasure too frequently hides at the bottom of well, it needs some courage to dive for it, especially as he that does so will be likely to incur more scorn and obloquy for the mud and water into which he has ventured to plunge, than thanks for the jewel he procures; as like in manner, she who undertakes the cleansing of a careless bachelor's apartment will be liable to more abuse for the dust she raises than commendation for the clearance she effects. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/but-as-the.md) > I possess the faculty of enjoying the company of those I — of my friends as well in silence as in conversation. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/i-possess-the.md) > There is such a thing as looking through a person's eyes into the heart, and learning more of the height, and breadth, and depth of another's soul in one hour than it might take you a lifetime to discover, if he or she were not disposed to reveal it, or if you had not the sense to understand it. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/there-is-such.md) > When a lady does consent to listen to an argument against her own opinions, she is always predetermined to withstand it — to listen only with her bodily ears, keeping the mental organs resolutely closed against the strongest reasoning. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/when-a-lady.md) > If you would have your son to walk honourably through the world, you must not attempt to clear the stones from his path, but teach him to walk firmly over them — not insist upon leading him by the hand, but let him learn to go alone. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/if-you-would.md) > I thought Mr. Millward never would cease telling us that he was no tea-drinker, and that it was highly injurious to keep loading the stomach with slops to the exclusion of more wholesome sustenance, and so give himself time to finish his fourth cup. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/i-thought-mr-millward.md) > If we can only speak to slander our betters, let us hold our tongues. [Quote page](https://www.leafyquotes.com/anne-bronte/the-tenant-of-wildfell-hall/if-we-can.md) > No one can be happy in eternal solitude. 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