# Quote — Abraham Verghese, Cutting for Stone

> But you reach a point where after trying and trying you say, Patience be damned. Let them suffer their distorted worldview. Your job is to preserve yourself, not to descend into their hole. It's a relief when you arrive at this place, the point of absurdity, because then you are free, you know you owe them nothing.

- Author: [Abraham Verghese](https://www.leafyquotes.com/abraham-verghese.md)
- Book: [Cutting for Stone](https://www.leafyquotes.com/abraham-verghese/cutting-for-stone.md)
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